Check the Patient, Not the Alarm

When I was a nursing assistant on a step-down unit, there were always alarms going off. Cardiac monitors, ventilators, pulse oximeters — each one signaling a possible emergency. If you’ve ever worked in a hospital, you know how those sounds can make your heart race.


One day, my patient’s pulse oximeter started blaring. His oxygen saturation read 88%. I ran to get the nurse. She came quickly but didn’t rush in. Instead, she stopped right at the doorway, hands on her hips, just looking at him. Calm. Observant.
After a few seconds, she said quietly, “Always assess your patient first.” She explained that alarms are meant to make you react. They’re loud, urgent, and unsettling on purpose. But not every alarm means the patient is in danger. You have to see what’s really happening.

So, we looked closer. He was breathing normally. No nasal flaring, no accessory muscle use, no bluish tint to his lips. He wasn’t in distress at all. His pulse ox probe had just slipped off his finger.

That day, I learned one of the most important lessons in both nursing and life: Not every alarm means emergency. Sometimes, the situation is fine — your monitor just needs recalibration.

Our minds have alarms too. They go off when we feel abandoned, unseen, disrespected, or unsafe. They beep when an old wound gets triggered — even when the present moment poses no real threat.


Sometimes we sprint toward panic, thinking we’re in danger, when in reality, our emotional “sensor” is just loose — misfiring from years of survival mode. That’s what prolonged stress and trauma do: they train our nervous system to expect emergency.

And just like the nurse taught me, we need to pause and assess the patient, not the alarm.
Ask yourself: Is my reaction aligned with what’s actually happening? Or am I reliving an old emergency through a new moment? Not every heightened feeling is a call to action.

Sometimes, it’s a call to awareness

When you take a breath and choose to observe before reacting, you invite clarity back into your body. You shift from chaos to calm, from defense to discernment.
That pause — that moment of stillness — activates new neural pathways that teach your body
safety again. You’re literally retraining your mind to choose peace over panic.

Manifestation isn’t just about calling in blessings; it’s about conditioning your nervous system to believe you are safe, worthy, and ready to receive them. When you pause before reacting, you align your inner world with the truth that everything is working for your good.

The more you practice it, the stronger those new pathways become — until calm becomes your default instead of fear. Recalibration is restoration. It’s the art of remembering that your body, mind, and spirit are always capable of returning to peace.

🌿 “Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10
Stillness is not passivity; it’s divine awareness. It’s the spiritual version of “assess before reacting.” It’s that sacred space between alarm and understanding — where discernment lives.


🌿 “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” — James 1:19
The nurse didn’t rush. She observed. That’s what this verse invites us to do — to hold our reactions until truth has a chance to reveal itself.

🌿 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, withthanksgiving, present your requests to God.” —Philippians 4:6

Prayer quiets the alarms. When you bring the situation to God, you give Him space to show you what’s really happening.

To “check the patient” within yourself, you must learn to reconnect with your body and the present moment. This is how you anchor your spirit when life’s alarms start to blare.


Here are gentle ways to bring yourself back to peace:


🌿Ground through the senses: Name what you can see, feel, hear, smell, and taste.


🌿Step into sunlight: Let warmth and light remind your body that you are safe right now.


🌿Tap over your heart: A light rhythmic tap can calm your vagus nerve and reset your breathing.


🌿Practice box breathing: Inhale for four seconds, hold for four, exhale for four, and hold again for four.


🌿Pause to pray: Whisper, “God, show me what’s really happening here.”
These small practices teach your nervous system to trust peace more than panic. They turn reaction into reflection — and reflection into revelation.

Ask yourself: What alarms go off most often in my life? Are they true emergencies, or echoes of old experiences? What would change if I paused to assess before reacting? How can I create space in my day to restore calm and clarity?

Remember: you’re not ignoring the alarm — you’re checking the patient first. And most of the time, you’ll discover that you’re still breathing, still capable, and still protected by divine order.

💫 If this spoke to your spirit, stay close.

I share moments like this often! Lessons from nursing, healing, motherhood, faith, and becoming.

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